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By helping other young adults view or manage their mental health in a more positive way, I was able to find myself again - my sense of purpose and vision of a better future. The community I was helping to build became an indispensable part of my own recovery, providing me with the advice and encouragement I needed to hear, enabling me to make sense of my own thoughts and beliefs, giving me confidence that I could pursue goals that mattered to me.

My Story

Move It for Mental Health 2023

Now in its 6th consecutive year, Move It for Mental Health is Mind HK’s annual campaign to raise awareness of the link between physical exercise and mental health and encourage everyone to develop a healthy lifestyle. This year’s challenge is to complete 30km in nature.

The money raised for Move It for Mental Health 2023 will go directly to providing free mental health support to low-income youth through Mind HK’s iACT programme, which provides a sustainable, long-term solution to address the mental health crisis of long waiting times and unaffordable treatment in Hong Kong. Similar programmes overseas show that up to 70% of those who receive this type of therapy require no further treatment. Adolescents are just the start of Mind HK’s wellbeing practitioner series, which will expand to target other vulnerable populations in the years to come. HK is a stressful city to live, study and work in - the need for iACT is deeply felt across all sectors of society.

To support this campaign, I will be completing my 30km in nature on 18th March 2023 (Saturday) together with my friends and other Mind HK staff/board members. I will be doing my favourite route from Tung Chung to Mui Wo on Lantau Island (see photo for details). I hope you will support me and this cause which is close to my heart by donating or taking part in the challenge with me on the day! No running, just walking (I promise), with options to leave the route at shorter distances and ending with a meal of course! I hope it will be a safe space to talk about all things wellbeing, to help us recharge together and feel uplifted physically and mentally.

How Exercise Has Helped Me

I discovered the joy of exercising outdoors when I started training for trail races last year. Being on the trails brings mental clarity and makes me feel calm and free, away from noise, traffic and heavy crowds. Leaving distractions (my precious internet connection) behind and being in a remote location accessible only by a one-hour ferry ride teaches commitment and perseverance - there is no turning back, no stop button you can push on a treadmill. You start to notice more of your surroundings - the sounds of your footfall and the crunching of the leaves, the breeze and sunshine and sweat on your skin, the birds flying overhead and the waves crashing beside you. When you’re surrounded by beautiful views on top of a mountain, you’re reminded of how insignificant we are on this earth and how grateful we can be for it.

My history with running has been a long and life-changing one. Exercise has been a lifeboat, a coping mechanism I used during a very difficult period in my teenage years. It gave me a way to directly confront my negative thoughts through action, a tool to rediscover what I am capable of. On days when I barely wanted to get out of bed, running gave me a reason to leave my house and provided structure and predictability in contrast to the chaos inside my head: I knew what to expect when running, and I knew I would be okay. Pushing through discomfort showed me that all pain, physical or mental, does not last forever. To this day, whenever I start to feel my mental health deteriorate, I can trust that after a few runs, I will inevitably start feeling like myself again. I find it hard to relax by sitting still; movement is my meditation and helps me appreciate being alive.

Although I have received a lot of support for my condition - kindness and understanding from friends and family, access to therapy, doctors, and medication - it wasn’t until running showed me I could start believing in myself again that I was able to shift my perspective and regain hope and confidence. As exercise showed me what my body was capable of, I realized it needs to be looked after, not punished. On days when I don’t feel as well and run less or slower than I anticipated, I no longer beat myself up for it but feel proud that I tried. I’ve learned to be adaptable and less rigid and more loving to myself.

I used to be intimidated by runners until I became one myself, gradually overcoming my doubts, finding a rhythm, and building up the distance from 5k to an ultramarathon. Something magical happens when you start running - it connects you to the world around you. I was very withdrawn when I was in the midst of depression and lost interest in pretty much everything. Life is way too hard to figure out on our own, but we can achieve our goals in a community. Running gave me the opportunity and courage to interact with others, to laugh and bond over shared setbacks and triumphs. 

How I Joined Mind HK: My Story

I first joined Mind Hong Kong in October 2018 whilst taking a leave of absence from university. At the time, my mental health had spiralled and I was fortunate enough to receive amazing support from my doctors and professionals. Yet I knew that not everyone had access to care in Hong Kong due to limited public resources, financial constraints, stigma and a lack of understanding, among others. This weighed heavily on the back of my mind and I felt sad, even a little bit guilty, to receive so much help. I had a privileged upbringing, a loving family, great friends, and good grades in a professional degree that promised stability and security - but still found myself in a very dark place. If I was in so much turmoil about recovery with all these wonderful sources of support laid out in front of me, how much harder could it be for someone who has to jump through multiple obstacles to access even one of those sources? Knowing firsthand how cruel the mind can be, I certainly didn’t feel like I deserved to recover any more than the other 1 in 7 in HK finding themselves in a similar situation.

I wanted to be able to do something to improve this disparity with the free time I was suddenly faced with, and Mind HK (then just one year old!) took me on as a volunteer. In the beginning, I didn’t know how to revisit traumatic memories, much less talk about them. Guided by the team’s sagacity, sensitivity and understanding of mental health, I shared my journey publicly for the first time at the 2018 Mind HK Media Awards. I didn’t expect it to make much of an impact. But what followed showed me how opening up can bring knowledge, understanding and compassion to people who have not walked in your shoes. It can bring hope to those who are going through the hardest period of their lives and make them feel less alone, a reminder that they matter and their stories are worth being listened to. After witnessing the power of lived experience, I was offered an opportunity to work on Coolminds, Mind HK’s youth mental health initiative with KELY Support Group, in 2019, a role I maintained after my return to university. By helping other young adults view or manage their own mental health in a more positive way, I was able to find myself again - my sense of purpose and my vision of a better future. The community I was helping to build became an indispensable part of my own recovery, providing me with the advice and encouragement I needed to hear, enabling me to make sense of my own thoughts and beliefs, giving me confidence that I could pursue goals that mattered to me. 

In 2021, I left my job at Mind HK to focus on my full-time studies, but was invited to join as a Board Member. It has been one of the biggest privileges of my life to remain involved with an organisation that has not only contributed so much to mental health across the city, but has also impacted and supported me on a personal level. I would not be in the place I am today if it weren’t for the people at Mind HK who demonstrated such strong dedication to their mission of making sure no one faces a mental health problem alone, whilst modelling healthy practices to maintain and prioritise wellbeing. When we have good mental health, we are able to look after ourselves and engage with the things we care about.

Last year, Mind HK launched their iACT (Improving Access to Community Therapies) programme, training fifty Youth Wellbeing Practitioners to deliver free psychological interventions to youth aged 12-24 experiencing mild to moderate mental health problems. These practitioners have been placed in community settings such as schools, universities, clinics, NGOs and have even delivered online sessions to reach youth in need. 

Seeing iACT launch after several years of planning and development reminds me of the inequality I felt compelled to address when I first joined Mind HK as a volunteer. By supporting individuals at one of their lowest points and empowering them to learn to manage unpleasant or painful thoughts and feelings, iACT bridges an essential gap in the provision of mental health services. It brings me so much joy and excitement to know that other lives are being transformed, as mine has, by learning coping strategies to live a rich and meaningful life.

Recent Donors

  • Heinok Fan

    Appreciating your constant effort on supporting others' mental health whilst also doing your own work! Thank you and enjoy the wholesome hike, gayau!

    HKD 300 03/12/2023 01:59:47 PM UTC

  • Ann Pearce

    Thank you, Charlotte, for your commitment to helping improve the mental health and well-being of young people in Hong Kong.

    HKD 5,000 03/09/2023 10:02:05 AM UTC

  • DWWY

    You go Charlotte!

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